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The Second Agreement with Hell Pdf

Opublikowano: marzec 5th, 2022 by foto-klinika |

The way you use words can create heaven on earth or hell on earth. The Word is the gift that comes directly from God. If you remember the gospel of John, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word is God.” That is, words have the power to create. Don Miguel Ruiz is a renowned spiritual teacher and international bestselling author. Famous for the best-selling book, The Four Accords. Knowing that insults have nothing to do with me, as Ruiz says, prevents me from absorbing his poison. Now I just have to learn to laugh instead of crying. In the book, the author mentioned how Adolf Hitler was able to use words to manipulate others, start a war, and ultimately forge hell on earth. Emotional poison comes in the form of compliments, cuts, opinions, gossip, lies, praise, and anything based solely on the other person`s truths and personal agreements with one`s own world. Others don`t hurt you. On the contrary, you hurt yourself by sticking to the negative and fear-based agreements that keep those wounds open and exposed. Don`t take anything personally.

This is the second chord of Don Miguel Ruiz`s classic “The Four Chords”. I need a memory today. So I open his book to this chapter and I read: Ruîz says that you make it easy to take things personally to be easy prey for people who infect you with their emotional poison. The second agreement simply says: Don`t take anything personally. Once you agree with a negative comment or deconstructed criticism of someone else, the poison passes through you, – infects your mood in a negative way. Author Don Miguel Ruîz explains that everything others say and do reflects the agreements they have made with themselves and their world. These can be hateful words or words of affirmation and praise. We make assumptions about what others are doing or thinking, and then we take it personally if it doesn`t fit our own requirements. According to Miguel, true love means accepting others as they are without trying to change them. To be impeccable with one`s word means not to use the word against oneself. It means using your energy towards the truth. Let yourself be guided by love, not fear.

But if you don`t take it personally, you`re immune in the middle of hell. Immunity in the midst of hell is the gift of this agreement. If you can keep this agreement, you can become vulnerable to those you love and who love you, without fear of ridicule and rejection. The first three chords will ONLY work if you do your best. You can follow your heart. And then you can be in the middle of a world of hell and still experience inner peace and happiness. This does not prevent my friend from her mission. With the confidence of Marilyn Monroe, she lies down at the table with the guy and his girlfriend and unfolds a towel on her lap. You can ask for what you need.

You can say yes or no – whatever you choose – without guilt or self-condemnation. We blamed them and responded by sending emotional poison with our words. Life after the four chords reverses domestication and creates the dream of heaven on earth. So, without further ado, here are the four agreements, and please enjoy them. This agreement brings with it a huge amount of freedom because it immediately allows you to break dozens of ill-founded agreements. Even the opinions you have about yourself are not necessarily true; therefore, you don`t have to take everything you hear in your own head personally. Do not take anything personally, because by taking things personally, you are preparing to suffer for nothing. If we truly see others as they are without taking it personally, we can never be hurt by what they say or do. Even if others lie to you, that`s fine. They lie to you because they are afraid. What a wonderful world we would live in if everyone could accept these agreements! Everything someone else thinks and feels is based on how they see the world according to their own belief system. It rarely has anything to do with you.

However, if you learn to master this agreement, you will gain immunity from the poison that others spread. If you master the first two chords (be impeccable with your word and don`t take things personally), you can break 75% of your negative and fear-based chords! If someone doesn`t treat you with love and respect, it`s a gift if they walk away from you. If this person does not leave, you will definitely endure many years of suffering with them. Moving away may hurt for a while, but your heart will eventually heal. Then you can choose what you really want. You`ll find that you don`t need to trust others as much as you need to trust yourself to make the right decisions. “― Miguel Ruiz.” The problem with assumptions is that we believe they are the truth. Miguel writes. The second agreement in the book The Four Agreements states that you should not take anything personally. Even if one situation seems so personal, even if others insult you directly, it has nothing to do with you. What they say, what they do and the opinions they give are based on the agreements they have in their own minds. If you take things personally, you make easy prey for these predators, the black magicians.